What Do You Want?

As we embark on 2025, this is the question that has captured my heart and mind. What do you really want? This might be the single most important question you ever ask yourself.

Because until you know what you want—and you decide to claim it—you’ll remain stuck in a cycle of lack. That gnawing feeling of life “passing you by,” or that you’re “just going through the motions,” or worse, living someone else’s definition of success. It leaves you feeling unfulfilled, “less than,” and wishing for a life that feels out of reach.

So I’ll ask again, with love and sincerity, What do you want?

I get it. That question can be paralyzing. Maybe your mind goes blank. Maybe confusion sets in. I’ve heard it from so many people: “I don’t know what I want.” And far too often, they stop there. They resign themselves to the fog of indecision, convincing themselves that clarity is unattainable. Don’t do that to yourself.

Getting clear on what you want is not only possible—it’s the most important work of your life.

And here’s how I know: Once upon a time, I was right there with you. Overwhelmed, defeated, blank. But here’s what I’ve learned since then—and what I want you to hear today: Deep down, you do know what you want. You’ve just buried it.

Maybe it feels too big. Too bold. Too different. Too “extra.” Or maybe you’ve been conditioned to believe it’s selfish, impractical, or impossible. Let me tell you something. That conditioning? That belief that your desires are “too much” or “not for you”? It’s a lie.

You were not meant to shrink your dreams to fit into someone else’s idea of what’s acceptable.You were meant to want what you want. Your desires were placed within you by the divine…not to taunt you, but to guide you. They are your soul’s blueprint for the life you are here to live.

When you step into your dreams, you don’t just transform your life—you ripple transformation out into the world. This is why I do the work I do!

Whether it’s in 1-on-1 sessions or within Stress Mastery Academy, my mission is to help you break free from the inherited, self-limiting beliefs that have kept you playing small. Together, we’ll rewrite your internal programming and create new neural pathways that support your vision—your wants, your dreams, your fullest, most expansive life.

Because here’s the truth: When you claim what you truly want, you become a leader…not just in your own life, but in a movement for all of humanity.

You inspire others to do the same. And when enough of us dare to be authentic, empowered, and true, we shift the collective consciousness. So, yes, this work is about you. But it’s also so much bigger than you. And the best part? You can’t get it wrong. You can’t mess it up.

The only question is: Will you dare to trust yourself? Will you brave the journey of unlearning stress-based, fear-driven patterns and begin the inner shifts that lead to outer transformation?
Will you have the courage to grow into the person you’ve always been destined to be? Because here’s the thing: The life you want isn’t a distant dream. It’s closer than you think.

The shift first happens in your consciousness, in your state of being. When you make that shift, everything around you begins to align.

This isn’t just personal development talk! It’s science. It’s spirituality. It’s truth.

So, my love, as you begin 2025, take a deep breath and ask yourself: What do I want?

Know this: You get to have it. You’re already on your way. And the journey? It will require courage, yes. But it will also unleash joy, fulfillment, love, and freedom on a scale you can’t yet imagine.

If you’ve read this far, you’re already stepping into your next chapter. Keep going. You’ve got this.

ALL the Love,

Dr. Tami